{"id":3000,"date":"2013-11-30T07:00:56","date_gmt":"2013-11-30T12:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/?p=3000"},"modified":"2014-09-28T06:25:06","modified_gmt":"2014-09-28T10:25:06","slug":"36563-xmas-gift-giving-criteria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/36563-xmas-gift-giving-criteria\/","title":{"rendered":"365+#63: &#8211; Xmas Gift Giving Criteria"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_3001\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Days-365+63-Xmas-trinkets.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3001\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-3001\" alt=\"Days 365+63 Xmas trinkets\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Days-365+63-Xmas-trinkets-150x150.jpg\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3001\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click to enlarge<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Since we are about to start the Advent season (which means most of the USA has already begun decorating and buying for Christmas), I plead with you to wait.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Wait because Advent is about waiting, in the dark, for a wonderful person to come, and it\u2019s not Santa Claus.<\/li>\n<li>Wait because we serve too many celebrations before their time and it robs us of the joy of anticipation.<\/li>\n<li>Wait because I just gathered up the Christmas knick knacks that I plan to take to those second hand places that only care about Christmas do dads the month before Christmas. At other times they seem tacky.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For the record, I found 5 more Christmas stockings than we have kids, 5 unused Advent calendars (at least they can pass for unused), 4 knick knacks, a bow, a white elephant, and one Easter pail. Hey, it was mixed in with holiday decorations.<\/p>\n<p>However, getting rid of Christmas decorations that I no longer want is not the main point of this blog. It\u2019s how did I attract so many useless decorations. How do any of us accumulate gifts that are well intended but doomed to be used several times and then banished to a corner to collect dust. As a public service to gift buyers, I\u2019m offering some tips on gifts for people who really don\u2019t need any more stuff, but you still want to show you care.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\">\n<li>Think about the person you love and <strong>study what brings them joy<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t buy \u201cobligation gifts\u201d unless<\/strong> it would be rude not to. For these people (co-workers, far flung relatives, etc., give them something consumable \u2013 ideally made in big batches in your own kitchen. Money works best for people who have low paying jobs like newspaper delivery people and letter carriers. If none of these work, give them the white elephant.<\/li>\n<li>When possible, <strong>give experiences<\/strong> rather than material goods. An afternoon of coloring with a pre-schooler, teaching an elementary school student to play jacks, taking a grandchild to the zoo or a teen to a play. Plan a surprise date with your beloved.<\/li>\n<li>Ask yourself Carolyn Hax\u2019s questions. Does the thing I am about to buy<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Free up time<\/strong> for someone busy? (Think babysitting, doing a chore, paying for a service)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Show support<\/strong> for someone down? (Think bringing humor, music, or companionship)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Strengthen connections<\/strong> for someone lonely? (Think spending time, calling, or writing)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Provide a pleasant experience<\/strong> to someone who wants for nothing material?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Blessed-by-Less-Cover.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-3006\" alt=\"Blessed by Less Cover\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Blessed-by-Less-Cover-150x150.gif\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>A question for you<\/strong> \u2013 What are the top 2 gifts you\u2019ve ever received? What gift-giving tip would you like to pass on?<\/p>\n<p>PS: Oh Yes, and you can always buy them my new book, <a title=\"Blessed By Less: Clearing Your Life of Clutter By Living Lightly\" href=\"http:\/\/susanvogt.net\/BooksbyVogt.htm\"><em>Blessed By Less: Clearing Your Life of Clutter By Living Lightly<\/em><\/a>. It comes out December 1, 2013. 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