{"id":3374,"date":"2014-08-03T16:58:02","date_gmt":"2014-08-03T20:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/?p=3374"},"modified":"2014-12-06T14:00:05","modified_gmt":"2014-12-06T19:00:05","slug":"36575-tipping-taxes-tithing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/36575-tipping-taxes-tithing\/","title":{"rendered":"365+#75: Tipping-Taxes-Tithing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/dollar-sign.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-685\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/dollar-sign.jpg\" alt=\"dollar sign\" width=\"100\" height=\"141\" \/><\/a>I\u2019ve been doing a lot of traveling lately and I also know that I can be frugal to a fault. So what do these 2 things have\u00a0to do with each other?<\/p>\n<p><strong>TIPPING:<\/strong><br \/>\nIt started with a decision about whether to tip a guy in Chicago who I thought was a cab driver but who I learned was just signaling an oncoming cab to stop for me. I could have done that! He expected a tip and got nasty when I got in the cab and didn\u2019t tip him. The actual cab driver then dropped me off about a block away from my destination. I always give a\u00a015 % tip at restaurants and to the person who cuts my hair. I leave a tip for the hotel maid. I avoid using bell hops because I use a rolling suitcase and have no trouble finding my own room in a hotel. I don\u2019t like tipping for service that I planned to do myself. All this has got me thinking about whether I am too much of a tightwad, or am I just being self-sufficient.<\/p>\n<p>I pride myself on living and traveling simply and have enough income to meet my basic needs. But I&#8217;ve been trying to remember that often people who are customarily tipped are working at minimum wage jobs, if that. Perhaps I have to let go of some of my pride and change my thinking to see my \u201ctip\u201d as a way to do my share to decrease the income gap. (Of course a more permanent solution would be to work for the political change that would respect all human labor as worthy of a living wage and decrease the discrepancy between the rich and the poor.) But then there was the situation last week when I was getting some medical shots and the credit card receipt had a blank for a tip for the nurse. I wasn\u2019t sure what to do?<\/p>\n<p><strong>TAXES<\/strong><br \/>\nThis brings me to the sidewalk in front of our house. My city government has recently repaired all of the sidewalks in my part of town. The construction company has done a great job \u2013 and it\u2019s FREE. I\u2019m impressed. But then I remember that I actually did pay for this service when I paid my city taxes. Few people like to pay taxes but I\u2019ve been trying to train myself to pay them readily and happily because it\u2019s a way to provide for the common good. Everybody pays according to their income for things like police and fire protection, road repair, health care, national security, etc. This is good, EXCEPT, I just got an unexpected bill from my city saying that I needed to buy a $50 license because I was an independent contractor and had made money this past year while working out of my home. I then needed to pay tax on the income I made. Hmmm. I already paid federal and state tax on this income. I didn\u2019t know I needed a city license. Now I also have to pay a license fee and city tax on the income too. I paid it, but I\u2019m not happy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TITHING<\/strong><br \/>\nKnowing that I can be overly frugal (our kids call it being a Scrooge or a tightwad) a long time ago Jim and I decided that we would make sure we donated 10% of our income to charity each year (church, charitable and political causes, and the like). This relieved me of making decisions about how much was enough to give away. I could feel like I was doing my fair share. BUT, what about the beggar on the street or those incessant phone calls from different causes asking for donations? I seldom give, Jim often does. I\u2019m not proud of my lack of generosity. Sure, it can be defended by:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The beggar may just use the money for alcohol or drugs<\/li>\n<li>I already give to (and volunteer at) agencies who help needy persons<\/li>\n<li>My 10% tithe is already committed<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But, I wonder if I\u2019m hiding behind a rule and not willing to go the extra mile. I\u2019ve always appreciated when friends donate to causes that I solicit for. What would Jesus do?<\/p>\n<p>These are tiny, and sometimes big, moral dilemmas for me. I\u2019ve developed a few rules of thumb but I don\u2019t have a perfect system and I\u2019m not sure I\u2019m being generous enough. Here are my current criteria.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Tip people who are doing a service for me, and be especially generous to people in jobs that I know are low paying.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t be so adamant about doing something myself, just to avoid the need to tip.<\/li>\n<li>When possible, employ people who come to our door asking to do odd jobs.<\/li>\n<li>Pay taxes with gratitude that I have an income to tax.<\/li>\n<li>Tithe at least 10% to worthy causes but look upon it not as <em>charity<\/em> but as <em>justice,<\/em> a way of giving back.<\/li>\n<li>Give to any neighborhood kid who is selling something, especially Girl Scout cookies.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>What are your criteria or thinking on this?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been doing a lot of traveling lately and I also know that I can be frugal to a fault. So what do these 2 things have\u00a0to do with each other? 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