{"id":5609,"date":"2018-05-01T15:03:41","date_gmt":"2018-05-01T19:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/?p=5609"},"modified":"2018-10-09T17:17:11","modified_gmt":"2018-10-09T21:17:11","slug":"365169-taming-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/365169-taming-time\/","title":{"rendered":"365+#169: Taming Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Time-person.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-2425 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/Time-person-150x150.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"121\" height=\"121\" \/><\/a>Sometimes our lives are cluttered with things. Sometimes it\u2019s <em>things to do<\/em> that clutter our mind and time. I wonder if I will ever get my To Do list done before I die. Sure, I make time to nap, read, recreate, and take vacations so it\u2019s not like I don\u2019t take breaks, but still I wonder if I will ever really get caught up. So here\u2019s a collection of tips I\u2019ve developed over the years to deal with taming time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Pray first:<\/strong> Even if you\u2019re not \u201creligious,\u201d taking time daily to contemplate who I am and what\u2019s important \u2013 is important. If I wait till there\u2019s time, other priorities crowd out this spiritual time. Now that we are no longer in the active parenting stage of life, first thing in the morning works for me. For those with other bio-rhythms last thing at night can qualify as <em>first<\/em> in anticipation of the next day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Set priorities:<\/strong> Most time-management gurus advise identifying no more 3 priorities that you hope to accomplish each day. Do those first, starting with the top priority. This is good unless your top priority is to create world peace or it becomes a day long project. <strong>Solution<\/strong>: Estimate the time your top priorities will take and if one might take more than 1\/3 of your working day, reevaluate. Set deadlines. <strong>Exception:<\/strong> 3 Minute Rule. If several things are not top priorities but are quick and easy, do them early.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Days-365+53-To-Do-List.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-2878\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Days-365+53-To-Do-List-150x150.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"128\" height=\"128\" \/><\/a>3. Keep a To Do List:<\/strong> Consider a To Do list not as a burden but rather a tool that frees you of the stress of keeping everything in your head. Some things are necessary and have a deadline; others are nice to do if time allows. One beauty of a To Do list is the satisfaction and joy of crossing tasks off (in <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">red<\/span>) when accomplished. My daughter recently co-authored a playful Wall Street Journal article, <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wsj.com\/articles\/if-you-want-to-make-the-a-list-you-have-to-make-a-list-1524843488?tesla=y\">America Is Drowning in Lists<\/a><\/em><\/span>, which includes ideas from the <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/3062946\/this-100-year-old-to-do-list-hack-still-works-like-a-charm\">Ivy Lee Method<\/a><\/span> to <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/bulletjournal.com\/\">Bullet Journals<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Develop Email\/Text\/Phone Protocols<\/strong>: Only check emails after your basic priorities for the day are set lest you wallow in email purgatory before starting the important stuff. However, email does allow you to identify some 3 Minute Rule tasks from your To Do list and quickly cross them off.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Days-365+42-@-sign.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-2521\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Days-365+42-@-sign-150x150.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"79\" height=\"79\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Days-365+42-@-sign-150x150.gif 150w, https:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Days-365+42-@-sign.gif 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 79px) 100vw, 79px\" \/><\/a>Reduce Email<\/span>:<br \/>\n&#8211; Don\u2019t reply to all unless \u201call\u201d really need to know.<br \/>\n&#8211; State the goal and deadline clearly. For example: <em>Need a reply by ___.<\/em>\u00a0 \u00a0OR\u00a0 \u00a0<em>For your information \u2013 No need to reply<\/em> avoids unnecessary \u201cThank you for your email&#8221; emails<br \/>\n&#8211; Expedite scheduling large group meetings with an app like <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/doodle.com\/\">Doodle<\/a><\/span>.<br \/>\n&#8211; Filter and\/or Unsubscribe from unwanted repetitive promotional emails.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Texting<\/span>: Best for short messages, your kids, or times that might interrupt a person\u2019s job. But, don\u2019t overdo it. Don\u2019t contribute to another person&#8217;s phone clutter.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Phones<\/span>: Turn alerts off or ignore during meals or meetings unless your mother is in the hospital. The live person in front of you always comes first.<a href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Days-365-+-Facebook-e1375203783423.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-1874\" src=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/Days-365-+-Facebook-150x150.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"70\" height=\"70\" \/><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>5. Check social media last<\/strong> and only for a limited time \u2013 maybe 30 minutes. Use <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/socialfixer.com\/\">Social Fixer<\/a><\/span> to prune unnecessary Facebook posts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Save Time for Recreation &amp; Relaxing:<\/strong> This might come under setting the day\u2019s priorities if you tend to be a Type A personality like me. Accomplishing a lot is good. Being a balanced person is better. Don\u2019t waste time complaining unless you can do something to fix it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Laugh, Turn it Over <\/strong>Sometimes people and life will interfere with even the best time management system. Think of these as a spiritual call to pay attention to the humans and life around me. Laugh at the folly of trying to completely control my life.<\/p>\n<p>For additional ideas see my past posts under the TIME Tag cloud (bottom of right column), especially\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.susanvogt.net\/blog\/365158-wasting-time-saving-time\/\">Wasting Time\/Saving Time.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes our lives are cluttered with things. Sometimes it\u2019s things to do that clutter our mind and time. I wonder if I will ever get my To Do list done before I die. 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